The clash of messes (your inside mess and the whole outside mess) often causes a hell of a lot of suffering. By not starting off in clarity it is easy to end up with more messes to clean up than you started with in the first place.
So what do you do about all this mess? How do you begin to clean up your messes?
DON'T FIX IT
The first important rule of thumb, the first best advice for rescuing yourself from any mess, inside or outside, is this: Let’s not mess with fixing it!
The second rule of thumb is: Find a way to ground yourself with gravity, outside of the mess of your mind or the mess of your personal relationships, family and your stupid superficial lightweight corporate cop court crap culture that you have been brainwashed with.
The third rule of thumb is to learn to meditate, concentrate, demonstrate and sometimes eliminate.
Connect. The fourth rule of thumb is to connect with another being like yourself, with a mess of a mind like yourself, from a fucked up family and culture like yourself and start an honest conversation with them.
DON'T BE LIKE
Admit that you cannot find your ass with both hands. Say when you are more uncertain than certain. Say out loud that you don’t know the answers and half the time can’t come up with the questions and even then don’t know if they are the right ones.
FIND ONE MORE
Keep talking to people until you find other ones just as confused and just as honest as you are. Then, each of you find one more person like yourselves.
...we are somehow sure that this applies equally well to women.
Radical Honesty Experiments
Become A Present-Tense Noticing Being - PART 1
Matrix Code RADICAL.01
Shift your self-experience from being a Person, a Woman, a Man, an LGBT, a Black, a Chinese, a Jew, a Moslem, a Christian, a Democrat, a Republican, a Victim, a CEO, a Plumber, a Wife, a Husband, a Dancer, a New Yorker, a Smoker, a Vegetarian, a Mother, a Father, an Apple Brand Fan, etc. etc. etc... to "I am a Being."
You don't have to know what a Being is. In fact, no one can know what a Being is because a Being is the mysterious interface between matter and consciousness at large.
Beings Are, and Beings Become.
The Box is Defensive. The Being is Expansive.
Beings can be a Space through which Bright Principles and your Archetypal Lineage can do their work in the world.
Before you can Experiment with being a Present-Tense Noticing Being it is first necessary to occupy yourself as a Being.
Become A Present-Tense Noticing Being - PART 2
Matrix Code RADICALH.02
Practice being Present.
Become A Present-Tense Noticing Being - PART 3
Matrix Code RADICALH.03
Read Brad Blanton's Radical Honesty Book
Matrix Code RADICALH.04
Read Brad Blanton's Radical Honesty book, word by word, cover to cover. Let it in. Think about it. Tehen start trying the experiments!